There is a time for emphasizing our shared humanity and collective experience. This is not that time.
George Floyd’s murder was heart-breaking, disgusting, and all too common an experience for the Black community. As are the many ways that people who are Black are treated as less than on a daily basis. These experiences are not shared by White people. They are perpetrated and perpetuated by White people, overtly and unconsciously.
This is why we need to center the message:
Black Lives Matter
Hopefully, we are at a tipping point in the revolution against racial injustice. But it’s not enough to stand in solidarity with people who are Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (BIPOC). White people need to do better. I need to do better.
Looking over my own books and resources, I see that I’ve mostly been trained and influenced by white teachers and authors. This needs to change.
I need to shine the spotlight of awareness on the ways I’ve been contributing to systemic racism and learn how to be anti-racist. I’ve got a lot to learn; I’m definitely the student here.
There are so many great anti-racism teachers out there right now, many of them BIPOC.
Layla F. Saad’s book and program Me and White Supremacy is a good starting point. So is Ibram X. Kendi’s TED talk on how to be Anti-Racist. Dr. Robin Angelo’s video on white fragility is sobering.
If you have resources, particularly from BIPOC teachers, for how to unlearn racism and be a better ally, please share them.
It’s time to do the work.
Big love,
Jen
Janet Howard
As a 64 year old white woman, I thought I had a pretty good understanding of racism but in recent months, I have realised that my knowledge doesn’t even touch the surface. But I’m willing to learn. Thank you for everything you are doing.
Jen Reed
Janet – such a humbling process. We have lots to learn (or unlearn!). Thank you for sharing your experience. Warmest, Jen
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Robin DiAngelo
I think you must know this woman, but maybe you don’t.
Jen Reed
Renuka – I’m loving her book “White Fragility”. A much-needed eye-opener! Thank you for the reminder. Big love, Jen